Movies and TV in the 50s
Movies and TV shows can be very influential towards young girl’s
minds, so if Lolita saw any of these shows or movies while growing up, then she
may have been swayed to think that her “relationship” with Humbert was normal.
This show is supposed to be a picture-perfect family of a
husband and wife highlighting their adventures being married. A show like this
would be one that any girl would see and immediately want to have a
relationship like the one portrayed in the show. Theoretically, Lolita could
have seen this show and therefore thought that her relationship with Humbert
was okay because she may have wanted a similar relationship to that which Lucy
and Desi had on TV. She could also have felt similar to Lucy in that she would
get into trouble or do troublesome things yet Humbert would bail her out or
help her. If Lolita was being bad, Humbert would almost reward her by buying
her things to make sure she doesn’t run away or tell anyone about their
relationship. Arguably Desi is mentally
abusive in that he always critiques Lucy and treats her like she’s a child since
he thinks that she should come to him before doing anything for herself like
buying something. This could also lead a
young girl to believe that an abusive relationship is both normal and to be
expected.
“Vertigo” (1958) directed by Alfred Hitchcock
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· This movie normalizes men obsessing over women which can
cause young girls to think that this is normal and maybe to be desired. This film
can justify Humbert’s obsession with Lolita, and if Lolita says this film, she may
have been influenced to think that her relationship with Humbert is not
strange. Humbert wants to control Lolita
and that can be harmful to her not only in the moment but also for her future
relationships because she will now think that this is what love looks and feels
like.
“A Street Car Named Desire” (1951) directed by Elia Kazan
This film portrays a rocky marriage where the man is clearly
in control of his wife. He’s abusive
much like Humbert which again which shows that abusive relationships of either
physical or emotional nature are normal and to be expected. The controlling, overbearing
man that is portrayed in the film would hit close to home if Lolita watched it
since it’s exactly how Humbert acts towards her. Though it wasn’t directly
shown, the rape scene could have been very triggering for Lolita since she was
raped multiple times by Humbert throughout their relationship. Films like these
shape young girl’s minds- especially when the main male character is
exceptionally attractive- into thinking that abuse is normal which it never should
be.
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